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Tafadzwa Gotora (Tafffy)
Hometown:
Harare, Zimbabwe in Africa
Relationship Status:
Single
About Me:
My name is Tafadzwa Lillian Gotora and I am a 26 years old single lady. I have been a Spirit filled christian for the past 7 years. I come from Harare, a city in Zimbabwe which is in Africa and I am african by origin.



I experienced the love of God and received healing for the wounds of being raped at the age of four, molested and abused by female housesitters and being rejected because I was not born a boy and many other painful things.


In God have I found and continue to find wholeness. I know there are many broken women who need to hear my story and realize that there is hope……..and even for the orphans because I am also an orphan and have also experienced many losses, having lost 3 siblings and a nephew to date.



God’s love has proved to me that I have no reason to be ashamed of anything I have been through in my lifetime. God used all those life experiences as stepping stones that have made me, shaped me and moulded me to be the woman of God that I am today. Though I have wrestled with a past that has been fractured and wounded ,God forgives and forgets and is pleased to use any vessel just as long as it is cleaned by His blood
Favorite Music:
music by Donni McClurkin, Vineyard Christian Music, Hillsong, Alvin Slaughter, Deitrick Haddon, CeCe Winans, Michael W. Smith, Brian Doerksen,Nicole C. Mullen, Matt Redman,
Favorite Movies:
Woman Thou Art Loosed, Daddy's Little girls, The second chance, Kingdom come, Saved, The Best Man, The Colour Purple, something new, Bride and Prejudice,Alexander, Troy,King Arthur,Man on Fire, Antwone Fisher, The Manchurian candidate, Why did I get married, Madea's family reunion
Favorite Books:
The colour Purple, I know why the caged bird sings, Woman Thou Art Looosed -the novel and the Healing of the wounds of the Past Book, The Lady, her lover and her Lord, No More Sheets, The Purpose Driven Life,Where is God when it hurts, His Perfect Faithfulness, Nervous Conditions, My Life by Bill Clinton, The Google Story, Healing the hidden self, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility,The complete works of william shakespeare, A time to kill, The God chasers, the God catchers, Little women, Good Wives
Favorite Authors:
T.D. Jakes, Juanita Bynum, Maya Angelou, John Grisham,Rick Warren, Max Lucado,Tommy Tenny, Jane Austen, Louisa May -Alcott,William Shakespeare

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Is it wrong for me to keep praying for this??
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Started this discussion. Last reply by LaTasha A Jul 28 2008.

I was in an undefined friendship with a godly guy until the gentleman told me that there is someone he met last year and who is the one God has chosen for him. They are not yet together as she is still resisting and so his love for her is still unrequited but he is convinced she the one. I am blessed by the friendship with this guy because he edifies me and encourages me in my walk with Christ and gives me counsel. However a huge part of me still still thinks that we are going to be together, because our views, dreams and some experiences are identical!!!!!!!! He even believes in having a big family and thats what I believe as well and I have always wanted twins and he happens to have a pair of twins for his siblings.I want to be in that place where I can genuinely be happy for my friend and brother in Christ Archie if he does marry someone else..this is not an easy process right now though but I still want to pursue emotional purity. What I think is happening is that His emotions are with me because shares quite a lot with me, he really opens up a lot to me but I thank God that unlike what I have done in the past I haven’t spilled everything about my past and who I am to him since we are not courting and I think He feels obliged to keeping in line with the so called revelation that He says He got from God about this other girl and yet is not so emotionally drawn to her as he is to me and she is resisting. Am I wrong to keep believing that we belong together?? Reply »

Age does matter, right?

Added a post Apr 2 2008

I agree with Candice that its a matter of maturity and accountability...and would also like to add that usually if the younger guy has a solid relationship with God he is able to take the lead in the relationship.I also am quite interested in a guy who's 4 years younger than me but i am still just praying into the situation first..so good luck Reply »

 

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2008- YEAR OF THE BRIDES!!!!!!!!

Posted by Tafadzwa Gotora on June 4th, 2008 at 7:05am
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2005 - YEAR OF THE BRIDES

by Bill C. Yount www.billyount.com theshofarhasblown@juno.com

As the threshold of the New Year is approaching, I heard wedding bells ringing throughout the earth at the striking of the midnight hour...January 1st, 2005. In the Spirit, I heard a huge order of "Bridal Veils" being called into the throne room of Heaven. "Make that an extra large order," the command came from the Father of the Brides. I sensed that not only was the Father excited over His own Son's wedding that would soon take place, but He was seemingly beside Himself for the joy of a multitude of long awaited "end-time" weddings that would take place upon the earth, just preceding the greatest wedding in the Universe. "Get those six water pots out again and fill them with 'living' water! I've saved the very best wine for last, for these end-time weddings." "BEGIN TO LIFT THE VEILS OF 'SINGLENESS' OFF OF THEIR FACES!" I saw veils of "singleness" that had been covering many single men and women for years in spite of their desire to marry. These veils were actually covering them to protect and hide them from wrong relationships. Many thought, "What is wrong with me? No one seems to notice me or seems to even look at me!" But I saw the wisdom of God hard at work to preserve these chosen ones for the person whom the Lord was preparing and keeping separate for them also. I sensed the Father saying to their guardian angels, "Begin to lift the veils of 'singleness' off of their faces! It's time for them to see and be seen by the one whom I have ordained for them. I will continue to order their steps and 'stops' and cause their paths to cross as they faithfully continue serving me. "As I sent an angel to direct the steps of Isaac's servant to find Rebekah for him, I am sending angels before them to guide them. In the everyday, ordinary walk of life they will begin to discover My surprise appointments with Divine contacts for the desires of their hearts." EACH WEDDING BRINGS HEAVEN AND EARTH A LITTLE CLOSER Veils were coming off of many "widows and widowers" as the Lord was proclaiming, "Your lonely days are coming to an end!" I saw some divorce papers being shredded to pieces as some who had divorced each other were now making plans to renew their wedding vows and start over! All of Heaven seemed to be ecstatic over earthly weddings. To them, each wedding brings heaven and earth a little closer, with the intent to portray the ultimate marriage that all creation awaits...the marriage supper of the Lamb! An angelic conductor was about to move his baton for angel choirs to come in on Heaven's grand finale of -- "Here come the Brides!" A WITNESS TO THE EARTH OF THE LOVE OF THE FATHER These end-time marriages were being brought into the Kingdom to witness to the earth the love of the Father between a husband and a wife. This demonstration of God's love would be contagious and influence many in the earth to become the Bride to be -- whom the Father is preparing for His Son. I sense a "Ruth and Boaz" anointing coming upon single men and women. A word to the Ruth's (single women) is: "Keep serving and gleaning unto the Lord where He is leading you...your Boaz is near!" And a word to the Boaz's (single men): "Untie your shoe* laces...and prepare yourself to redeem your 'Ruth'"! * In the days of Boaz concerning redeeming and purchasing, a man would pluck off his shoe, and give it to his neighbor. This was a testimony to confirm things in Israel.

So I AM BETROTHED

Posted by Tafadzwa Gotora on March 12th, 2008 at 3:44am
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I saw this article somewhere on net and it was written by young christian lady..i really liked it

So I AM BETROTHED

I am a promised women. My fate secured from birth. My husband I do not know, have not seen, and I yet to even know his name. Yet my Father planned this all out, a union between to our two lives before time began. My betrothal signed when I surrendered my life to Christ, and closed with a Royal crest; Christ's blood as it's waxen seal.
My Love and I are perfect for one another in every way, my Father saw to that. And thought it's hard not knowing who he is, I take comfort in knowing that my Abba, my God, picked him out. I will know him in due time, just at the right age and point in life. Just at the time my Father set up for us to join together when He created us.
Though a betrothal seems hardly romantic, My Father has planned it out to be the romance of a life time. And though when I met my Love for the first time, I may not see him for who he is, love will blossom, and will be far more then what I could have imagined. Perfectly orchestrated by the creator of the universe... My Father, my Friend, my first, and forever perfect Love... my God.
And in that, knowing my God has beautifully designed every step of my romance, I will live my life simply as that- knowing I am betrothed. That my Father will bring my love to me in HIS timing. It may not be my timing, nor my loves timing, but it will be perfect timing. And when we meet, we will truly see the incredible plan that our Father has mapped out for us. And together, we will go forward, praising our Father's holy name. Better glorifying Christ together then we ever could apart.
This betrothal, my hope and future, I pray will be in the foremost of my mind, until the day I forever say "I do". I pray that with every young man I meet, and know, that instead of wondering "Could he be the one?", I simply say "I can't wait 'til my Father brings my love". Instead of always looking, keeping an eye out for my future husband, I pray that I will leave the time and place up to God, and keep my eyes on my Savior. For whats to happen if I'm looking around at other men when my Father finally points out the "one"? Would I miss him? Could I be so fixed on another, that my love walks right by me, and I never notice? God forbid! No, I'd much rather spend my time fixed on my Father. Using this time of single hood to get to know my Abba, my Daddy Father better. All every good Father wants is to spend time w/ his children. And God is no different. He wants my undivided attention. Not only so I can know Him better, and become more like Him. So when, that long awaited time comes, when my love finally arrives, I'll see him clear as day. All because my Father is pointing right at him.

, betrothed. What a beautiful word. I am my loves, and he is mine. Even now, before we know one another. But, first and foremost, I am my God's, and it is only because of Him that I can have such a bright and beautiful future.

JESUS - THE LOVER OF MY SOUL

Posted by Tafadzwa Gotora on January 23rd, 2008 at 1:42am
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I WAS BROKEN REJECTED AND IN A TERRIBLE LIFELESS STATE. THINGS SEEMED TO GET WORSE AND WORSE YET I TRIED SO HARD. THE SEARCH FOR ACCEPTANCE AND FOR WHO I REALLY WAS CONTINUED TO BE FRUITLESS, UNFULFILLING AND NEVERENDING... YOU SEE I TRIED TO DO ALL I COULD TO GET IT TO GET SOMETHING TO FILL THAT EMPTINESS IN MY HEART BUT I FOUND NO SOLACE- BUT I STILL RAN ON... I WANTED TO BE FREE I WANTED TO ESCAPE FROM THE CHAIN OF EMOTIONAL PAIN THAT WAS BOILING IN ME THE NEGATIVE WORDS AND THEIR RIDICULE AND TAUNTS WERE LIKE FIERY DARTS AIMING FOR MY WEAK AND BROKEN HEART. THE TORMENT WAS SO PAINFUL BUT I FOUND NO RELIEF IT FELT LIKE THERE WAS NO HOPE OF ESCAPING. THEN HE CAME SEARCHING FOR ME HE FINALLY FOUND ME STANDING ALONE, NAKED COLD BLEEDING AND HEAVILY YOKED. HIS EYES BEHELD ME AND IN ONE GLANCE FELL IN LOVE WITH ME. HE LOOKED PAST MY BROKEN STATE AND MY DIRTY STENCH FROM THE PAST AND SAW ME AS 'COMPLETE' WHOLE BEAUTIFUL AND PRECIOUS. WITH HIS EYES HE SAW THE FINISHED ARTICLE AND NOT THE ROUGH UNCUT DIAMOND I WAS. HE LIFTED UP MY HEAD AND LOOKED INTO MY EYES WITH COMPASSION AND WIPED THE TEARS FROM MY EYES. HE CLEANSED ME WITH HIS PRECIOUS BLOOD AND CLOTHED ME WITH A ROBE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS AND A GARMENT OF PRAISE, AND WRAPPED AROUND MY BRUISED, BATTERED SHOULDERS THE CLOAK OF INTEGRITY. HE GAVE ME A NEW NAME AND IDENTITY. HE MADE ME A SOMEBODY - AN AFRICAN PRINCESS AND A WOMAN OF VIRTUE. HE PUT A BEAUTIFUL GOLD RING ON MY FINGER AND MADE ME HIS WIFE. HE ALSO ADORNED MY HEAD WITH A BEAUTIFUL CROWN AND MADE ME AN HEIRESS TO HIS UNSEARCHABLE RICHES AND FILLED THAT EMPTINESS THAT I HAD TRIED TO FILL ON MY OWN HE FILLED THAT EMPTINESS TO OVERFLOWING. HE LED ME TO DRINK THE LIVING WATER AND IN ONE INSTANT MY THIRST AND HUNGER WERE FULFILLED. LIKE A WEANED BABY IN ITS MOTHER'S ARMS FOR THE FIRST TIME MY SOUL FOUND REST SURPRISED TO BE LOVED AND AMAZED TO FIND ALL THAT I HAD SEARCHED FOR IN HIS ARMS. I HAD FINALLY FOUND THE ONE WHO MY SOUL LOVED - THE ONE WHO MY FLESH AND SOUL HAD CRIED OUT FOR. I WILL HOLD ON TO HIM FOREVER AND NEVER LET HIM GO. WRITTEN BY TAFADZWA LILLIAN GOTORA (Taffy) 29/10/03

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At 10:33pm on October 5th, 2009,  Rebecca Mahleza said
Amazing woman, great to read your blog, soooo full of wisdom. Im Zimba too, came out to Hillsong College in 06 and have stayed. Hope you're well and being kept. are you still at home?
At 5:51pm on November 4th, 2008,  Cherish Mutambara said
Hey Tafadzwa,

I was just snooping around on past discussions! Im glad to see another zimbabwean on women praying bodly...well hey i also wanted to ask if you by any chance went to Gateway High School in zimbabwe...i happen to know someone with the same surname. Please respond to me on my page or email me.

Take care,
x
At 4:43am on June 18th, 2008,  Aisha said
Hi Taffy,

Like your blogs. very encouraging !
At 7:37am on June 3rd, 2008,  Callie said
Hi Tafadzwa,

Its so nice to meet you! Do you still live in Africa? I miss it and can't wait to go back! Your testimony seems amazing. :)
At 1:49pm on February 29th, 2008,  Pam said
Hi Taffy
How are you? I saw your message and I want to let you know I am praying for you too. Let's start expecting some good surprises!
xxx
At 6:07am on January 24th, 2008,  Pam said
Hi
I am living and working in Birmingham. I work for an arts marketing agency. I am also working on a project that involves using the arts to encourage teen Zimbabwean girls to know their Value and God's heart for their lives, I would like to talk to you about it and I will fill you in with more details later .
At 3:09pm on January 23rd, 2008,  Pam said
Hi Taffy
That's a powerful testimony! Did you go to the Convent? we might have been at school together, I would have been about 6 years your senior...
At 6:58am on January 23rd, 2008,  Evelyn said
Hi Tafadzwa, so good to hear your story and the amazing manifestation of God's goodness and grace in your life. And what a wonderful smile you have!! I'm about 1/3 of the way through Candice's book and am honoured to include you in my prayers as we see the perfect will of God fulfilled in our lives. 2008 is indeed going to a year of breakthrough! I truly believe it! Let's praise Him!!
At 6:55am on January 23rd, 2008,  Lakeisha Blake said
Thanks so much for sharing your testimony. It is very encouraging to hear what God is doing in your life.
At 5:54am on January 23rd, 2008,  Candice Watters said
Welcome, Tafadzwa -- I'm so glad you're here and pray you'll be encouraged by this community of believers. Do you still make your home in Zimbabwe?

Candice
 
 

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